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It is an interesting topic. Women, in my experience, simply do not have fetishes or sexual compulsions in the same sense that men do. I suspect most men in female lead relationships have had to explain, in some detail, the basis of such a relationship. Now, that said, it can be done.

My own case may be helpful. I am a bit of a switch but find the submissive role more compatible with a busy business life. For some years, when I was not so busy, I played the dominant with regular Saturday night spankings (which she hated) and lots of “because I want to” sex for my own pleasure (which she rather liked as I almost always brought her to orgasm after I was satisfied.)

To switch the scenario I suggested that there was good evidence (which there is) that the endorphins released during a good hard spanking helped stabilize moods and allow focus. I needed a lot of focus and, in a matter of a week or two, she was swinging the bath brush with delighted abandon and my weekly ration of endorphins was at an all time high.

From there it was not terribly difficult to suggest that I had been selfish in my sexual demands and that, perhaps, it made more sense for her to take her pleasure and leave me on the brink. A baby step from that was the idea that I not come without her permission and that this permission be granted sparingly.

Now our routine is for me to gently put her to sleep with a back rub and orgasm – vibrator, digital or orally if she wants it and then kneel beside her bed until she says good night. In the morning I go back to kneeling beside her bed carrying her bath brush and a tiny cast iron Japanese tea cup in case I am permitted to come. The brush to cup ratio has settled at a pleasant 3:1 with nothing at all happening at least three days a week and, of course, for the duration of her period.

I suspect it goes without saying that for the next few years I will not be taking her over my knee of a Saturday evening; but she has developed a fondness for the cane before I am allowed to serve her.

We are discussing a strap-on. Both for my further humiliation and because she enjoys the sensation of being filled but is not willing to risk my having an unearned orgasm.

Delightful.